Love dice are one of the simplest couples games around: you roll, you read, you play. No app, no rule book the size of a novel, and no awkward speech about what you fancy trying tonight. The dice do the suggesting for you. In this guide we explain how love dice work, how to play them so the evening stays fun for both of you, and which type of set suits which kind of couple. Everything we mention comes from our own love dice collection.
What are love dice?
Love dice, also sold as sex dice or couples dice, are dice that carry words, symbols or illustrations instead of numbers. You roll them together and the result gives you a playful prompt. The classic format is a pair: one die suggests an action and the other suggests where. Other sets use illustrated positions, and some come as larger sets with several dice that you can combine however you like.
The appeal is easy to understand. Dice take the decision out of your hands, which removes a lot of pressure. Nobody has to come up with the idea, nobody has to feel shy about asking, and a silly result is half the fun. That makes love dice a relaxed starting point for couples who have never tried an adult game before.
How to play love dice: the basic rules
There is no official rule book, which is exactly the point. Most couples start with something like this:
- Agree on the mood first. Decide together whether tonight is light and giggly or slow and romantic.
- Take turns rolling. One person rolls, the other carries out the prompt, then you swap.
- Set a time per roll. A minute or two per prompt keeps things moving and builds anticipation.
- Allow a re-roll. Give each player one or two free re-rolls for anything they are not in the mood for.
- Stop whenever you like. The dice are a suggestion, never an obligation.
That last rule matters most. A good game of love dice only works when both players feel free to say "not that one" and roll again. Agree on that before the first throw and the rest takes care of itself.
Five house rules to keep it fresh
- Best of three: roll three times and let your partner choose their favourite result.
- The slow game: one roll per song on your playlist, no skipping ahead.
- Lights out: play with glow in the dark dice in a darkened room.
- Winner decides: play a quick card game first, and the winner controls the dice for the next three rolls.
- Date night dice: add your own list of six non-bedroom treats, such as a back rub or breakfast in bed, and mix them in with a normal numbered die.
Which love dice should you choose?
Sets differ in three ways: what is printed on them, how many dice you get and how they look. Here is how to pick.
Dice with text: the easiest start
Text dice are the classic choice for a first set. You read the words, you combine them, done. A pair is all you need, and they slip into a bedside drawer or a weekend bag without any fuss. Good examples are the Sex Dice with Text, Black Print, 2 Pieces for a clean, simple look, or the Love Dice with Text, Blue and Pink (2 Pieces) if you like a bit of colour.
Glow in the dark dice: for lights off
If you prefer to play with the lights down, choose a glowing set. The Glow in the Dark Sex Dice With Text Set of 2 is a text pair, while the Neon KamaSutra Sex Dice Set of 2 With Positions swaps words for illustrated positions. Both suit couples who want the game to feel a little more like an event.
Wooden dice: a gift that looks the part
Wooden love dice have a warmer, more grown-up look than plastic ones, which makes them a popular present. The Wooden Sex Dice 30 mm With Erotic Text is the regular size, and the Wooden Sex Dice XXL, 6x6cm is the big one that is hard to lose under the duvet. For maximum comedy value at a party there is even the Giant Cartoon Sex Dice, 15 cm.
Kamasutra sets: more dice, more variety
Once a pair starts to feel predictable, a larger set keeps the game interesting for longer. The White Kamasutra Sex Dice, Set of 10 and the Black Edition version give you ten dice to mix and match. Roll two for a quick game or a handful for a longer evening.
We also stock sets made for same-sex couples, such as the Kamasutra Sex Dice for Gay Couples, Set of 6 and the Kamasutra Sex Dice for Lesbian Couples, Set of 9, plus gold editions for couples who like their games with a bit of shine. You will find more rainbow favourites in our Pride collection.
Quick picker: which set for which couple?
- First adult game ever: a simple text pair.
- You like atmosphere: a glow in the dark set.
- You are buying a present: wooden dice or a gold edition.
- You have played before and want more: a Kamasutra set with six, nine or ten dice.
- It is a joke gift for a hen do or stag night: the giant cartoon die.
Love dice as a gift
Love dice are small, light and easy to wrap, so they work well on their own or as part of a bigger present. A few occasions where they fit nicely:
- Anniversaries and Valentine's Day: pair a set with a handwritten card and you have a thoughtful, cheeky present. See our Valentine's Day collection for more ideas.
- Hen parties and stag nights: a classic for the bride or groom's goodie bag. Browse Bachelorette Party for matching extras.
- Christmas stockings and Secret Santa: a small parcel that always gets a laugh, as long as you know the recipient's sense of humour.
- Housewarming for a couple you know well: funnier than another candle.
Looking for a tiny add-on? The Love Dice Keychain is a fun extra, and keychains are part of our 1+1 Free deal: buy two items from the same category and the cheapest one is free. The same deal applies to pins and candy.
Other games that go well with dice
Dice are a great opener, but you do not have to stop there. In our Adult Games collection you will find a few easy next steps:
- Kamasutra Playing Cards, 52 Cards plus 2 Jokers: a full deck, so you can play any card game you already know and let the winning card set the next move.
- Kamasutra Decision Maker Ball, 20 Positions: ask, shake and see what comes up.
- Adultopoly 18+ Couples Board Game: for a longer evening in with a full board to work your way around.
A nice combination is to use cards or a board game as the main event and keep a pair of dice on the side as a bonus round.
Tips for a good first game
- Read the dice together beforehand. Look at every side in daylight so there are no surprises, and agree on what you would rather skip.
- Keep it light. Laughing during the game is a good sign, not a failure.
- Set the scene. Phones away, music on, a drink within reach.
- Talk afterwards. A quick "what did you like best?" tells you both what to do more of next time.
- Store them out of reach. Dice are small, so keep them away from children and pets.
Ordering from Kinky Pleasure
Every order is packed discreetly in a neutral box and shipped from the Netherlands, so nobody can see what is inside. Changed your mind? Unopened products can be returned within 14 days.
Frequently asked questions
How do you play love dice?
Take turns rolling the dice and carry out the prompt that comes up. With a pair of text dice you combine the two results into one instruction. Agree beforehand that either of you can re-roll or stop at any time, and decide how long each prompt lasts.
Are love dice suitable for beginners?
Yes. They are one of the easiest adult games to start with because there is nothing to learn. If you are new to this kind of game, begin with a simple text pair and read all the sides together first, so you both know what might come up.
What is the difference between text dice and Kamasutra dice?
Text dice carry words that you combine into a prompt. Kamasutra dice show illustrated positions instead. Text dice tend to suit a slower, teasing game, while position dice are more of a challenge. Larger sets let you mix both styles of play by choosing how many dice you roll.
Can you play love dice with more than one pair?
Of course. Many couples combine a text pair with a glow in the dark or Kamasutra set, or add an ordinary numbered die to decide how many seconds or minutes a prompt lasts. Making up your own rules is part of the game.
Are love dice a good gift?
They are a popular choice for anniversaries, Valentine's Day, hen parties and Secret Santa between good friends. They are small, easy to wrap and light-hearted. Just make sure the recipient will appreciate a cheeky present.
Will my order arrive discreetly?
Yes. We ship from the Netherlands in a neutral box without any mention of the contents on the outside.
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